And we were informed that my mum is at least at the 3rd stage of cancer... Mum was told by the doc that treatment will not be able to cure her.. treatment merely delay the cancer from growing/spreading... I can see that mum was shocked and her eyes were watery.. I asked the Doc in English what is the estimated life span of mum knowing that it is at least stage 3 now and was told abt a year... I'm not sure whether my mum understands and I really dunno how to break the news to her.. I know that she is feeling very negative now.. everything happened so quickly.. From a strong woman to now, my mum gotta hold on to me when she walks... I'm not feeling any optimistic either but I gotta be positive to motivate my mum...
Further bad news that Mum had a fall at home yesterday. I know I can't really depend on my dad to really look after my mum.. Gotta look for alternative source of help to make sure that my mum is well taken care of esp during her course of treatment..
Tues gonna meet the oncologist for the CT scan review and I'm praying that the cancer have not spread to other critical organs.
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